Thursday, January 15, 2015

ACE #324: Stop Crying Over the Ones Who Should Have Been There

As I reflect on the New Year’s Eve service we attended, the preacher talked about who was at the cross with Jesus. 

According to the four gospels, these are the people who were at the cross with Jesus:
1. Mary Magdalene (mentioned by Matthew, Mark, and John)
2. Mary the mother of James and Joses (mentioned by Matthew and Mark)
3. The mother of Zebedee's sons (mentioned by Matthew)
4. Salome (mentioned by Mark) -- Many scholars think that this is the same person as (3), the mother of Zebedee's sons
5. Mary the mother of Jesus (mentioned by John)
6. Mary the wife of Clophas (who was probably Joseph's brother) (mentioned by John)
7. An un-named sister of Jesus' mother (mentioned by John) -- Many scholars think that this is the same person as (6), i.e., the wife of Clophas
8. The un-named Beloved Disciple (mentioned by John)

But seriously, who should’ve been there? I would have thought that the people he healed or at least the people he fed would have been there.

Surely, Simon’s mother-in-law who was raised from her bed with fever would have been there.

Surely, the leper Jesus cleansed would have been there.

Surely, the man with the withered hand would have shown up at the death of the Savior.

Surely, Jairus and his daughter would have been on the front row for the crucifixion.

Certainly, the woman with the issue of blood would have tended to Jesus on the cross.

What about the 5,000 who were fed with two fish and five loaves of bread…and the others?  The deaf mute man? The blind man at Bethsaida? The boy with the impure spirit and his father?

But what about his disciples?  Shouldn’t HIS disciples have been there?

Were these people fearful?  Or were they just too busy?  Or had they gotten what they needed and moved on?

The reality is that there will be times in our lives when we think that people should have been there for us.  They should have shown up in our deepest, darkest moments.  (Yes, there will be those people who will be faithful as our friends and family).  Here’s the thing, as a Christian it is imperative not to depend on people, but to depend on God.  Even Jesus knew that the Twelve Disciples would not all be there at the cross, yet He still promised them, “And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.”

People will disappoint us.  People will let us down.  People will fail us.  But the Word of God says that we must, as Isaiah 26:4 reads, “Trust in the Lord forever, for the Lord God is an everlasting rock.” 

The ones who should have been there…were there for Jesus.  The ones who should be there…will be there for us too.



Matthew 27:55-56

55 Many women were there, watching from a distance. They had followed Jesus from Galilee to care for his needs. 56 Among them were Mary Magdalene, Mary the mother of James and Joseph,[a] and the mother of Zebedee’s sons.

Mark 15:40-41

40 Some women were watching from a distance. Among them were Mary Magdalene, Mary the mother of James the younger and of Joseph,[a] and Salome. 41 In Galilee these women had followed him and cared for his needs. Many other women who had come up with him to Jerusalem were also there.

Luke 23:49

49 But all those who knew him, including the women who had followed him from Galilee,
stood at a distance, watching these things.

John 19:25-27

25 Near the cross of Jesus stood his mother, his mother’s sister, Mary the wife of Clopas, and Mary Magdalene. 26 When Jesus saw his mother there, and the disciple whom he loved standing nearby, he said to her, “Woman,[b] here is your son,” 27 and to the disciple, “Here is your mother.” From that time on, this disciple took her into his home.


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